MY TOP 5 HACKS TO STAY HAPPY

Want to become happy?, Read this!

Is it possible to stay happy all the time? Do you know anyone who stays happy all the time?

Well, no person in this world can claim to be the happiest, atleast not anyone i know :p

Humans definitely have emotions, they have different moods, sometimes a person can be the "happiest person" on earth and sometimes, most "depressed person" the world has ever witnessed.

But ofcourse we can still try being Happy. I will tell you my top 5 ways to stay happy :)

1) Think Positively!

"Happiness is the precursor to success"

I am a firm believer that whatever goes around you is affected a lot by how you think!

Trust me, if your thinking is positive. You will be able to take out the positives from everything that ever happened to you.

You failed your exams, now you have to repeat the class :( 

Pretty sad isn’t it?

But what if you look at it this way

You learnt a lesson in your life, and now this experience has taught you to work hard and not take things for granted or maybe STOP WASTING TIME! Oh and yesss, a chance to make new amazing friends, and ofcourse a chance to prove yourself!

2) Whatever Happens, Happens for Good!

Become a firm believer of this and notice the change.

If I talk about myself, this has been my go to line whenever I get sad.  

Whatever happens, happens for the best; whether you accept it or not the most valuable lesson behind it is to make you stronger. Live in the moment, because that's all there is, hang on to it and let go the rest. Live each day as if it was your last.

"My best friend died in a car accident Umair, you shit!!!" "How can you say that it happened for good????"

Ok lets imagine, your friend managed to survive the accident, lived a lil more but had to be hospitalized for the rest of his life due to the accident.

WOULD YOU BE HAPPY?

WOULD YOUR FRIEND BE HAPPY?

WOULD YOU BE ABLE TO TAKE AFTER HIM?

                       "NO"

Just remember this amazing saying:

                           "WHAT HAPPENED WAS GOOD"

3) Make Others Happy

"The greatest happiness in the world is to make others happy"

Believe me or not, when you make others happy, when you see them smile because of something you did, it is one of the best feelings in this world.

I would say, always help others, Always make others happy and it would return to you in some way or the other.

"Give what you want to receive. If you want happiness, make others happy"

WHY?

  1.    You would have a sense of purpose in life, "you make people laugh". "make peeps                happy"

 a.    It makes you feel like you do have an impact in people’s lives,like you have a     role in other people's life regardless of how shitty you might feel about yourself.

 2.    spreads positivity 

 a.      Seeing others happy makes you feel more positive in knowing that you have         made their day better just by a little act, and you feel proud about yourself!

   i.      for me, I love it when my friends laugh at my jokes or at me (even when I            do embarrassing stuff) because it makes the whole environment feel much           livelier

 3.    For those who seek approval from others and are conscious towards how others   view them, it makes you happy to know that they ‘approve’ of youa.     *well     you should work towards not needing others’ approval! but can’t deny this is       quite a large part of social life*

"Life laughs at you when you are unhappy; Life smiles at you when you are happy; But life salutes you when you make other happy"

  4) Say Goodbye To Your Ego

Are you sad 'cuz 

You got ditched by someone?

Your friend left you all of a sudden?

Your mom and dad won't talk to you?

    

  STOP OVERTHINKING AND GO SAY THE GOLDEN WORD YOU LEARNED WHEN YOU WERE 2!

     "S O R R Y"

"Why do always i have to be the first one saying sorry?"

"I'll prolly just wait for the other person to realize and come to me, until then i'll just overthink and make myself a 100 times more sad"

Believe me or not, your ego can be actually cancerous to you sometimes. You leave the people you love and care about because of the shitty ego you have. Do you not remember your DEATH?

What if you are waiting for your friend to come to you and say sorry but before that you get a call that your friend died in a car accident?

I literally know many people, they wont forgive their sons or daughters for the shittiest of reasons. Both of them can't stay Happy for the rest of their lives but they wont complain since their Ego is winning!

This ego of yours would kill your relationships, it would destroy your happy lifestyle!

Once you kill this ego, you will be living off intuition or in other words living from your heart❤️.

5) Always Be Thankful For What You Have

"HEY UMAIR, You are saying this cuz you are blessed, i'll take you to my friend's home tomorrow, just see the car he owns, oooof! He is happy because he has that luxurious car"

"Ok while we will be on our way to your friend's house, do also look at all the beggars and the homeless people you encounter in the way. Oh and also, while we visit your friend, we will also say hello to your friend's son who lost both his legs in the accident last year and now his biggest wish in life is to have walk again, to run, to have legs like YOU have!

The moral of this stupid conversation between me and my ungrateful friend is to 

• Appreciate what you have
• Never compare yourself with others
• Look outward, not inward

"Be thankful for what you have; You will end up having more, If you concentrate on what you don't have, You will never ever have enough" 

  These are my top 5. Do comment or email me to tell yours?